What exactly do you want? Often, people have no idea what they want; they only know what they don't want. Make use of all available resources, including books, CDs, courses, and people. Maintain your focus on the desired outcome at all times. I challenge you to look at your goals through the eyes of a child.
Maintain a positive attitude. Believe in yourself and what you're capable of. There is no turning back when your desire to succeed outweighs the pain, fear, or frustration of failing. Remember that anything is possible if you believe.
Be cautious of what you believe because that is what you will encounter. Your belief system is a one-of-a-kind mechanism. It is propelled by desire and guided by your thoughts and actions. In other words, the strength of your belief determines your success.
What exactly do you want? Often, people have no idea what they want; they only know what they don't want. Now is a good time to assess your objectives and determine the desired end result. Put your goals in writing and keep them visible throughout the day. Read them on a regular basis to keep them fresh in your mind.
• Be observant. Investigate and learn everything you can about how to achieve your goal. Make use of all available resources, including books, CDs, courses, and people. People, yes. Speak with as many people as possible who are already successful in your desired field. Inquire, inquire, inquire about what they did to achieve success. Do not restrict your contacts to people you already know. Introduce yourself by phone or mail, explain why you're contacting them, and request a tip. The worst-case scenario is that they ignore you. The best case scenario is that they become your mentor and provide support and encouragement. Many of the people you contact are likely to give you at least one useful tip. This is the least expensive and most rewarding method.
• Be distinct. Then, take what you've learned and embellish it to create your own creative process. Consider how you can approach your goal in a unique manner. Dare to be unique. Don't be afraid to experiment. What have you got to lose? Make a list of the worst-case scenarios, followed by a list of the best-case scenarios. Maintain your focus on the desired outcome at all times.
• Outperform your competitors. When you were a kid and saw your older siblings or friends riding a bike (without training wheels), you didn't think to yourself, "Whoa, I could get hurt doing that." Instead, you pleaded with me to try it for yourself. You gradually learned how to maintain your balance with a lot of practice and often pain. You soon found yourself trying to "out-speed" your friends with your speed or fancy tricks. When you fell, you would get back on and try again with even more zeal. You believed in your mind from your very first attempt that if you got back on, you would eventually learn to ride. I'm sure you imagined yourself as the best in the neighborhood, your school, the state, and the world!
• Maintain a positive attitude. If you only see problems ahead of you, you will only see obstacles. If you have doubts that your plan will work, it will not work. If you allow negative people to influence you, you will never be better than they are. Believe in yourself and what you're capable of.
There is no turning back when your desire to succeed outweighs the pain, fear, or frustration of failing. I challenge you to look at your goals through the eyes of a child, before you learned about self-doubt and negative criticism. Remember that anything is possible if you believe. Make a promise to yourself that you will not let anything or anyone, including yourself, stand in your way of achieving your objectives.
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